So...
The ex wife.
She could not pay the gas bill,
so the gas got turned off.
Leaving her,
AND OUR GIRLS,
with no heat or hot water.
THEN,
She leaves and goes to LA for
a couple of days,
leaving the girls at their apartment,
without ANY adult supervision.
She did not notify ANYONE that she
was leaving.
I found out when I woke up one morning,
from a long night before,
with messages on my phone from their school.
Trinity was sick,
it was noon by the time I got a hold of the office,
she had been in there since 9am.
I rushed down and picked her up
and brought her back home with me.
She told me that her mom was in LA with her boyfriend,
and that Brittany (the oldest, age 12)
was left in charge.
FACT: IN THE STATE OF CALIFORNIA AGE 12 IS THE LEGAL AGE TO STAY HOME ALONE, IT ISNT UNTIL FIFTEEN THAT A CHILD IS ALLOWED TO BE LEFT IN CHARGE OF OTHER CHILDREN (BABYSITTING), BECAUSE IT IS CONSIDERED A JOB. THE LEGAL EMPLOYMENT AGE IS 15.
The ex wife left a 12 year old girl in charge of:
A 10 year old girl,
8 year old girl,
and 5 year old girl.
an apartment.
cooking with no gas.
&&
At an apartment
where her abusive ex has been known to come
and kick in the door being violent.
Before we could do anything We found out
that Alexis (second oldest, 10)
reported her mother to the office.
Child Services then investigated
and the kids were taken away and put with their
grandmother (ex wifes mother).
For the record we are still unable to get custody
because the ex wife took his custody and visitations
away while he was in jail about 6 years ago.
We are currently working with the grandma and
the courts to get everything back.
This is a great thing.
Wednesday, June 23, 2010
Mothers Day 2010
Mothers Day 2010,
was unlike anything I could
have ever hoped for.
I got to pick up the girls that morning,
and spend the entire day with them...
ON MOTHERS DAY.
The ex wife did not want them,
instead she had plans with friends.
I took them over to my moms house
where we got to eat lunch.
Chicken and salads. mmmmm.
My girls looked so cute lined up
on my mothers couch,
it really touched me.
Everyone has been telling me since I
got with Joseph that THEY are lucky to have me,
but on Mothers Day this year,
I realized how lucky I AM to have them.
Their laughs and giggles completely
made my entire mothers day.
Of course my mother and grandma spoiled them
with candy and goodies. :)
It was a really terrific day.
The only thing that could have made it better,
would have been if Joseph didnt have to work,
and could have been there with us...
Either way,
Mothers Day was amazing.
&&
I realized exactly HOW DEEP
my love for them is,
and I wouldnt have it any other way.
Dear Girls:
I am your step mother, your fathers wife. If that is all I ever am to you, that is fine. You have a mother and I would never try and take her place, But you should know, that you are my daughters now too, you are my reasons for waking up in the morning and without you in my life, it would empty. Your smiles make my day, your hugs and kisses are beyond anything ive ever felt. My love for you runs forever, and I will always be here for you. I love your father, and I love you.
Always,
Your Proud Step Mother
was unlike anything I could
have ever hoped for.
I got to pick up the girls that morning,
and spend the entire day with them...
ON MOTHERS DAY.
The ex wife did not want them,
instead she had plans with friends.
I took them over to my moms house
where we got to eat lunch.
Chicken and salads. mmmmm.
My girls looked so cute lined up
on my mothers couch,
it really touched me.
Everyone has been telling me since I
got with Joseph that THEY are lucky to have me,
but on Mothers Day this year,
I realized how lucky I AM to have them.
Their laughs and giggles completely
made my entire mothers day.
Of course my mother and grandma spoiled them
with candy and goodies. :)
It was a really terrific day.
The only thing that could have made it better,
would have been if Joseph didnt have to work,
and could have been there with us...
Either way,
Mothers Day was amazing.
&&
I realized exactly HOW DEEP
my love for them is,
and I wouldnt have it any other way.
Dear Girls:
I am your step mother, your fathers wife. If that is all I ever am to you, that is fine. You have a mother and I would never try and take her place, But you should know, that you are my daughters now too, you are my reasons for waking up in the morning and without you in my life, it would empty. Your smiles make my day, your hugs and kisses are beyond anything ive ever felt. My love for you runs forever, and I will always be here for you. I love your father, and I love you.
Always,
Your Proud Step Mother
Updating...
It has been quite a while since I have been on,
about a month or so and SO much has happened.
I have experienced some really bad lows,
and enjoyed some of the best moments.
I am now finding myself with a little time today
to be able to update my blog, so bare with me please...
It is going to come in sections, that way I can separate
things by occurance. I am hoping to be able to be on
here more from now on, at least once a week.
In short,
I am still in a loving relationship with Joseph,
and the girls are still my entire world.
I am the PROUDEST step mom,
and nobody can tell me different.
Thank you,
Megan
about a month or so and SO much has happened.
I have experienced some really bad lows,
and enjoyed some of the best moments.
I am now finding myself with a little time today
to be able to update my blog, so bare with me please...
It is going to come in sections, that way I can separate
things by occurance. I am hoping to be able to be on
here more from now on, at least once a week.
In short,
I am still in a loving relationship with Joseph,
and the girls are still my entire world.
I am the PROUDEST step mom,
and nobody can tell me different.
Thank you,
Megan
Saturday, June 19, 2010
Step Parent
For those of you who dont know,
I am a writer, working on getting published.
I write short stories, self help, spiritual,
and poetry writings.
When the girls were placed in their grandmothers
custody, there was a three week waiting period
before we were able to see them again.
This was THE hardest thing that I have ever
gone through as their step mom.
Not knowing how things were going,
or how they were feeling,
being unable to hug them or play with them,
and having to completely trust someone
who I had never met, their grandmother or not,
it was a really difficult time,
when joseph and I feld alone
and helpless as parents,
this is a little something i wrote at the time
to describe how i felt.
By Megan E Johnson
Dont you know I feel the pain,
Im not the mother but it feels the same,
no word, no call, no communication
its not just your kids this world is raising
time and time we try and try
night after night I cry and cry
i love them as if they were my own,
you want me to leave, i refuse, i wont.
they love me, they need me, they want me too,
in the end that doesnt mean they dont love you.
Each day i miss them more and more
every day I pray till my tounge is sore
to bring them back into our lives,
i am a mother too, their fathers wife.
I am a writer, working on getting published.
I write short stories, self help, spiritual,
and poetry writings.
When the girls were placed in their grandmothers
custody, there was a three week waiting period
before we were able to see them again.
This was THE hardest thing that I have ever
gone through as their step mom.
Not knowing how things were going,
or how they were feeling,
being unable to hug them or play with them,
and having to completely trust someone
who I had never met, their grandmother or not,
it was a really difficult time,
when joseph and I feld alone
and helpless as parents,
this is a little something i wrote at the time
to describe how i felt.
By Megan E Johnson
Dont you know I feel the pain,
Im not the mother but it feels the same,
no word, no call, no communication
its not just your kids this world is raising
time and time we try and try
night after night I cry and cry
i love them as if they were my own,
you want me to leave, i refuse, i wont.
they love me, they need me, they want me too,
in the end that doesnt mean they dont love you.
Each day i miss them more and more
every day I pray till my tounge is sore
to bring them back into our lives,
i am a mother too, their fathers wife.
Wednesday, May 26, 2010
Parenting comes with Pain...
It is amazing to me,
how one person...
can change how you feel
in an instant.
sometimes that feeling can be amazing,
like when you kiss your kids goodnight,
or recieve flowers from your husband...
other times it creates a pain inside you,
a pain that is unexplainable...
That is where I am at.
Pain.
It has been a while since I have written,
and quite a bit has happened....
One kid was at school sick and nobody was able to be reached,
I recieved the phone call at 12:30pm...
She had been sick in the office since 9am.
They said they couldnt find anyone to pick her up,
so I went.
I picked her up and asked her where her mom was,
thinking I could take her home instead of bussing
a sick kid around with me.
She told me that her mother was in LA,
for TWO DAYS.
Their gas was TURNED OFF,
and her 12 year old sister was left responsible
for her three younger sisters and the apartment.
Joey and I called the school and got the CPS number,
however we did not get the chance to call them.
We found the court documents online and found out
that he has no custody and suspended visitation...
It was right about then that the pain really started to hit.
We went to pick up the two younger kids from school,
so that they werent at home alone, they could stay with us.
Their Mothers mother beat us to the punch and was already there.
We took our sick kid home with us, and waited.
We eventually took her to the "babysitters" house,
where her sisters were as well.
The next morning I recieved a call from my mother in law.
She said that Birth Mom called her crying,
the girls had been taken away by CPS and were with their grandma.
As angry as we were with BM, it was a sigh of relief.
However, the weeks to follow have been torture to me.
I never knew how much I could love someone,
until those girls and their dad came in and stole my heart.
Everyday that I am unable to talk to them, or see them...
my heart breaks a little more.
Part of me feels rediculous,
but I can not help it.
They mean the world to me,
and without them,
I am miserable.
I am happy that they are with their grandma,
and being taken care of...
But it hurts that I dont get to see them like I was.
The stress has put a strain on Joey and I,
we see the stress and are able to work through it,
but its not in the least bit easy.
how one person...
can change how you feel
in an instant.
sometimes that feeling can be amazing,
like when you kiss your kids goodnight,
or recieve flowers from your husband...
other times it creates a pain inside you,
a pain that is unexplainable...
That is where I am at.
Pain.
It has been a while since I have written,
and quite a bit has happened....
One kid was at school sick and nobody was able to be reached,
I recieved the phone call at 12:30pm...
She had been sick in the office since 9am.
They said they couldnt find anyone to pick her up,
so I went.
I picked her up and asked her where her mom was,
thinking I could take her home instead of bussing
a sick kid around with me.
She told me that her mother was in LA,
for TWO DAYS.
Their gas was TURNED OFF,
and her 12 year old sister was left responsible
for her three younger sisters and the apartment.
Joey and I called the school and got the CPS number,
however we did not get the chance to call them.
We found the court documents online and found out
that he has no custody and suspended visitation...
It was right about then that the pain really started to hit.
We went to pick up the two younger kids from school,
so that they werent at home alone, they could stay with us.
Their Mothers mother beat us to the punch and was already there.
We took our sick kid home with us, and waited.
We eventually took her to the "babysitters" house,
where her sisters were as well.
The next morning I recieved a call from my mother in law.
She said that Birth Mom called her crying,
the girls had been taken away by CPS and were with their grandma.
As angry as we were with BM, it was a sigh of relief.
However, the weeks to follow have been torture to me.
I never knew how much I could love someone,
until those girls and their dad came in and stole my heart.
Everyday that I am unable to talk to them, or see them...
my heart breaks a little more.
Part of me feels rediculous,
but I can not help it.
They mean the world to me,
and without them,
I am miserable.
I am happy that they are with their grandma,
and being taken care of...
But it hurts that I dont get to see them like I was.
The stress has put a strain on Joey and I,
we see the stress and are able to work through it,
but its not in the least bit easy.
Tuesday, May 4, 2010
Love knows no boundaries...
Joseph and I have decided to spread the news...
We told his mother that we are getting married,
and that a July wedding is being planned.
She took it well,
and I am extremely lucky to have such
an amazing mother in law.
Our wedding is going to be awesome.
less than 20 people, more like 15 max.
in the forest right near a lake.
a wiccan handfasting.
<3
there is still so much to plan out,
I will make a wedding page tab at the top to
keep everyone posted.
Much Love.
The Johnsons<3
We told his mother that we are getting married,
and that a July wedding is being planned.
She took it well,
and I am extremely lucky to have such
an amazing mother in law.
Our wedding is going to be awesome.
less than 20 people, more like 15 max.
in the forest right near a lake.
a wiccan handfasting.
<3
there is still so much to plan out,
I will make a wedding page tab at the top to
keep everyone posted.
Much Love.
The Johnsons<3
Sunday, April 25, 2010
Licence to Parent
Really...
I have always thought that some people
just should not be ALLOWED to be parents.
After this weekend,
I am a strong believer,
that maybe there should be a
LICENCE TO PARENT.
If you are a spiteful...DENIED.
If you are a selfish...DENIED.
If you....
Let me stop before it gets Recognizably personal.
Who am I to avoid the truth?
This is personal.
Why is it that some people just can not mother?
&&if they can not mother,
WHY are they allowed to have children?
There are so many people,
like myself...
who may never be able to have children..
and then there are "people"
who have children, but dont deserve them...
that neglect them,
they make the children suffer for their
own personal selfish gain.
Yes,
I am speaking of the ex wife.
Yes,
She has once again taken me by suprise,
when it shouldnt have suprised me at all.
So here is the before story:
1. We were contacted asking for help with the kids laundry.
Even though we dont understand why this is ALWAYS a problem,
we agreed to help for the kids sake.
2. We were also informed that the kids school called to inform
their mother that they were attending school looking dirty and unkept.
3. Their mother called me requesting that I brush out and do the youngests hair
because she wouldnt "let" her do it. I agreed, of course.
Story:
Joseph and I went to pick up the girls from their Mothers and take them
with us to a birthday party at my parents house for my little brother.
1. NO clothes were gotten together for us to take and wash.
Their mother had all night, and all that day until around noon
to gather enough clothes for the week for the girls so that WE
could wash them. MEANING: The kids had NO clean clothes, uncluding socks.
2. The youngest was sent with us, without any shoes. LITERALLY. Their mother
informed us that she did not have any.
How do you have children,
but NO clean clothes,
and ABSOLUTELY NO SHOES?
OH,
but it gets worse.
I go to do the youngests hair, and I find HORRIBLE MATTS OF HAIR,
A huge matt of hair, larger than my fist, all the way to her skull.
I was horrified, I showed their father who was also in complete shock.
After phoning their mother,
who went completely defensive and began with the
"I HATE YOUs" && "NAME CALLING",
after simply asked why the youngests hair was the way it was.
*Side Note*
Talking Bad about People.
especially people who help you out,
when they really dont have to.
especially people who have NEVER
disrespected you...no.
Immature and childish.
GROW THE FLUCK UP!
When you have to call someone else
to buy your children
shampoo,
toilet paper,
do their laundry,
socks,
do their hair,
buy shoes,
get them jackets....
&&
THEN YOU HAVE THE NERVE??
let me wait...
there WILL be an "annonymous" letter
at the end this post...
where I will get all that personal stuff out.
It just hurts me to the core,
that people can be so spiteful to people...
and then put the kids in the middle of it.
&&
It hurts even worse that the law does nothing,
that the CPS cases can open and close
as many times as needed and nothing is done,
ONE time, oops, FIX IT.
TWO times, consider it your LAST warning...
THREE or more...UNFIT PARENT, your Finished.
or at least thats how it should be,
thats how it needs to be.
Children should not, not LET you do anything,
YOU are the parent, they do not run YOU,
YOU run them.
Her hair.
Matted like a long haired dog,
you know the matts that you cut out of the dogs hair when
it hasnt been brushed for who knows how long??
THAT was her hair.
Almost half a bottle of oil,
a bottle and a half of detangler,
and half a bottle of leave in conditioner,
and we STILL had to cut A LOT of her hair.
THAT, my child.
IS NEGLECT.
LETTER TIME:
DEAR EX WIFE:
I understand that you hate me, but there are things that need to be said. Whether it is my place to say them or not, I no longer care. I have done my part since I got with the kids' father to take care of them and help him better himself. YOU have told me yourself that you see a difference with him. I am sorry that he couldnt make those changes sooner, but sometimes relationships run their course, and whether you want to like it or not, yours did and it is not the kids fault. YES, he has messed up IN THE PAST. Yes, he WENT to jails and prisons, and you WERE there through it. Yes, he probably put you through some serious hell, but are you seriously going to stand there and tell me that you NEVER did anything to him? That you were always the perfect wife and mother? Because I am here to tell you that honestly, that is wrong. Nobody is perfect. Joseph is not perfect, he never has been and never will be, but neither am I, and neither are you. He has a rocky past, the two of you have a rocky past. But in the end you got three beautiful children out of it, so yes you hate him all you want but he is in your life forever. You can hate me all you want but I am going to be by his side forever. We know that Joseph has had a rocky past, he hasnt always been there for the kids, and truth of the matter is, you divorced him. He doesnt have to be there for you. His only concern is with his kids. The fact of the matter is that he is bettering himself, and rather than blaming him for the past, accept the present and be happy that your childrens father adores them, loves them, and wants to be a part of their lives. Including YOUR child, which HE has taken in since she was barely walking. As far as he can see it, that IS his child, and he doesnt have to say that, but he loves her. It could be worse. He could not be around at all, but he is. Sure he was in and out of their lives for a while, but the key word is WAS. Why punish the kids and not let them see their father or have a relationship with their father, because you dont approve of his actions...
what actions does he do that you dont approve of?
Keeping a steady job and going to work daily?
Or having a steady relationship with a successful woman?
Or keeping in touch with his mother whom you would rather "tattle tale" on him with?
Wanting to take care of his kids and spend time with them?
Sure you have been a single mother and done a lot on your own, for that simple act I applaud you. I will not however applaud you anymore. If you needed help keeping the girls clean or doing hair, we have been but a call away. When we did recieve that call it was too much of hassle for you to come through with your end of the bargain.
In last year or so that I have grown closer to Joseph, I have never seen you be the "perfect [ex]wife or mother". I have seen NUMEROUS times, you put yourself before the kids. Do you realize that when you threaten their relationship with their father that you blame it on everyone but yourself? When your the one who made the threats? You have no right to keep him from the kids or threaten him about losing the kids forever just because he is with me. How many people have you been with? Did they have jobs? College? vehicles? Just wondering. I have done nothing but respect you and help you with your kids, and what do I get in return? Vulger name calling? Threats? Who has picked you and the kids up when it was raining and Joseph was at work? Who has rescued you from being stuck out of town when joey couldnt do it? Who has done your kids laundry? who has bent over backwards to help YOU out...I was never here to talk shit about you or put you down. BUT..I PROMISE...If I EVER see her hair matted up even half the way it was when you sent her to me, I PROMISE, you will lose her. I PROMISE I will call CPS MYSELF. I PROMISE, if the girls are not clean, CPS will be called. YOU do NOT run shit when you can not even keep their laundry clean and hair brushed. YOU have NO right to talk shit when we return the girls in ten times better condition than they are handed to us. They are given to us half clothed, we put shoes on their feet and clean clothes on their backs. They are given to us dirty, we start the shower and wash their hair. They are given to us with matted hair, and we sit there for hours combing and brushing until its better. You mess it up, and here we are to pick up the pieces, but the love that we have for the kids goes too far to make excuses for your parenting skills. It is time that something is finally done about it, and something will be done. I PROMISE.
Sincerely,
His New Wife to Be.
I have always thought that some people
just should not be ALLOWED to be parents.
After this weekend,
I am a strong believer,
that maybe there should be a
LICENCE TO PARENT.
If you are a spiteful...DENIED.
If you are a selfish...DENIED.
If you....
Let me stop before it gets Recognizably personal.
Who am I to avoid the truth?
This is personal.
Why is it that some people just can not mother?
&&if they can not mother,
WHY are they allowed to have children?
There are so many people,
like myself...
who may never be able to have children..
and then there are "people"
who have children, but dont deserve them...
that neglect them,
they make the children suffer for their
own personal selfish gain.
Yes,
I am speaking of the ex wife.
Yes,
She has once again taken me by suprise,
when it shouldnt have suprised me at all.
So here is the before story:
1. We were contacted asking for help with the kids laundry.
Even though we dont understand why this is ALWAYS a problem,
we agreed to help for the kids sake.
2. We were also informed that the kids school called to inform
their mother that they were attending school looking dirty and unkept.
3. Their mother called me requesting that I brush out and do the youngests hair
because she wouldnt "let" her do it. I agreed, of course.
Story:
Joseph and I went to pick up the girls from their Mothers and take them
with us to a birthday party at my parents house for my little brother.
1. NO clothes were gotten together for us to take and wash.
Their mother had all night, and all that day until around noon
to gather enough clothes for the week for the girls so that WE
could wash them. MEANING: The kids had NO clean clothes, uncluding socks.
2. The youngest was sent with us, without any shoes. LITERALLY. Their mother
informed us that she did not have any.
How do you have children,
but NO clean clothes,
and ABSOLUTELY NO SHOES?
OH,
but it gets worse.
I go to do the youngests hair, and I find HORRIBLE MATTS OF HAIR,
A huge matt of hair, larger than my fist, all the way to her skull.
I was horrified, I showed their father who was also in complete shock.
After phoning their mother,
who went completely defensive and began with the
"I HATE YOUs" && "NAME CALLING",
after simply asked why the youngests hair was the way it was.
*Side Note*
Talking Bad about People.
especially people who help you out,
when they really dont have to.
especially people who have NEVER
disrespected you...no.
Immature and childish.
GROW THE FLUCK UP!
When you have to call someone else
to buy your children
shampoo,
toilet paper,
do their laundry,
socks,
do their hair,
buy shoes,
get them jackets....
&&
THEN YOU HAVE THE NERVE??
let me wait...
there WILL be an "annonymous" letter
at the end this post...
where I will get all that personal stuff out.
It just hurts me to the core,
that people can be so spiteful to people...
and then put the kids in the middle of it.
&&
It hurts even worse that the law does nothing,
that the CPS cases can open and close
as many times as needed and nothing is done,
ONE time, oops, FIX IT.
TWO times, consider it your LAST warning...
THREE or more...UNFIT PARENT, your Finished.
or at least thats how it should be,
thats how it needs to be.
Children should not, not LET you do anything,
YOU are the parent, they do not run YOU,
YOU run them.
Her hair.
Matted like a long haired dog,
you know the matts that you cut out of the dogs hair when
it hasnt been brushed for who knows how long??
THAT was her hair.
Almost half a bottle of oil,
a bottle and a half of detangler,
and half a bottle of leave in conditioner,
and we STILL had to cut A LOT of her hair.
THAT, my child.
IS NEGLECT.
LETTER TIME:
DEAR EX WIFE:
I understand that you hate me, but there are things that need to be said. Whether it is my place to say them or not, I no longer care. I have done my part since I got with the kids' father to take care of them and help him better himself. YOU have told me yourself that you see a difference with him. I am sorry that he couldnt make those changes sooner, but sometimes relationships run their course, and whether you want to like it or not, yours did and it is not the kids fault. YES, he has messed up IN THE PAST. Yes, he WENT to jails and prisons, and you WERE there through it. Yes, he probably put you through some serious hell, but are you seriously going to stand there and tell me that you NEVER did anything to him? That you were always the perfect wife and mother? Because I am here to tell you that honestly, that is wrong. Nobody is perfect. Joseph is not perfect, he never has been and never will be, but neither am I, and neither are you. He has a rocky past, the two of you have a rocky past. But in the end you got three beautiful children out of it, so yes you hate him all you want but he is in your life forever. You can hate me all you want but I am going to be by his side forever. We know that Joseph has had a rocky past, he hasnt always been there for the kids, and truth of the matter is, you divorced him. He doesnt have to be there for you. His only concern is with his kids. The fact of the matter is that he is bettering himself, and rather than blaming him for the past, accept the present and be happy that your childrens father adores them, loves them, and wants to be a part of their lives. Including YOUR child, which HE has taken in since she was barely walking. As far as he can see it, that IS his child, and he doesnt have to say that, but he loves her. It could be worse. He could not be around at all, but he is. Sure he was in and out of their lives for a while, but the key word is WAS. Why punish the kids and not let them see their father or have a relationship with their father, because you dont approve of his actions...
what actions does he do that you dont approve of?
Keeping a steady job and going to work daily?
Or having a steady relationship with a successful woman?
Or keeping in touch with his mother whom you would rather "tattle tale" on him with?
Wanting to take care of his kids and spend time with them?
Sure you have been a single mother and done a lot on your own, for that simple act I applaud you. I will not however applaud you anymore. If you needed help keeping the girls clean or doing hair, we have been but a call away. When we did recieve that call it was too much of hassle for you to come through with your end of the bargain.
In last year or so that I have grown closer to Joseph, I have never seen you be the "perfect [ex]wife or mother". I have seen NUMEROUS times, you put yourself before the kids. Do you realize that when you threaten their relationship with their father that you blame it on everyone but yourself? When your the one who made the threats? You have no right to keep him from the kids or threaten him about losing the kids forever just because he is with me. How many people have you been with? Did they have jobs? College? vehicles? Just wondering. I have done nothing but respect you and help you with your kids, and what do I get in return? Vulger name calling? Threats? Who has picked you and the kids up when it was raining and Joseph was at work? Who has rescued you from being stuck out of town when joey couldnt do it? Who has done your kids laundry? who has bent over backwards to help YOU out...I was never here to talk shit about you or put you down. BUT..I PROMISE...If I EVER see her hair matted up even half the way it was when you sent her to me, I PROMISE, you will lose her. I PROMISE I will call CPS MYSELF. I PROMISE, if the girls are not clean, CPS will be called. YOU do NOT run shit when you can not even keep their laundry clean and hair brushed. YOU have NO right to talk shit when we return the girls in ten times better condition than they are handed to us. They are given to us half clothed, we put shoes on their feet and clean clothes on their backs. They are given to us dirty, we start the shower and wash their hair. They are given to us with matted hair, and we sit there for hours combing and brushing until its better. You mess it up, and here we are to pick up the pieces, but the love that we have for the kids goes too far to make excuses for your parenting skills. It is time that something is finally done about it, and something will be done. I PROMISE.
Sincerely,
His New Wife to Be.
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